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TAJWAR FATMA

TAJWAR FATMA

Hey World, I am Tajwar Fatma, a doctor by profession, a writer by passion and a dancer by heart. I am no Gandhi or Budhdha. Just an over thinker, trying to impact the world positively. Apart from being super optimistic all the time, I love trying out new things. I come from a family of Poets and Writers, but I have never written before. I take real life experiences as my inspiration. I hope you will love my take on things. Please feel free to drop an email about your life at tajwar.fatma1@gmail.com. I will love to share them with the world. Also Follow me on Facebook and Instagram by clicking on the links below. HAPPY READING !!

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I grew up, pretty much, breaking stereotypes on how a woman should look or behave. I have always been muscly and my bones were bigger than most girls my age. I was tall and I looked stronger. I had thick thighs, wide hips and long legs. I laughed instead of giggling like a sheep my entire life. I have been a wild child, a wanderer, experimenting life and never learning from my mistakes. Why? Because I chose to see good in people despite their shortcomings. I never had a clear skin. Some say I love makeup because I suffer from acne. But to me, makeup brings joy, the same way food, sex and money does to other people. I have been taught by the society to act timid when talking to a guy. To surrender my opinions, to silent my intellect when I meet a man good enough. But I chose to speak up. Always! Placed my opinion on the same plate as theirs. Because I believe if he was good enough, he would have valued my opinion and not silenced my voice. I have been taught that a man always provides for me. I am single and I buy my own food and pay my own bills. I am happy that I provide for myself. Not that I would hate depending on a man for anything, but if I had to depend on him, it would only be for companionship. I have been into endless debates whenever I opened my mouth talking about equality and chivalry. But I’m glad my soul never got tired teaching people lessons on sexism and feminism. Nobody taught me the importance of being a wild child in a world full of people trying to outsmart you. But here I am, learning life as it unfolds itself. Shoutout to every strong woman other there. Keep hustling babe, you’ve got this ! . . . . #womenempowerment #bossbabe #love #writersofinstagram #preach #poetsofinstagram #poets #inspire #unrequitedlove #poetsofindia #selfcare #poetsofig #poetsofinstagram #selflovequotes #writerscommunity #writers #empower #heartache #onesidedlove #breakupquotes #relationshipquotes #motivationalquotes #quotes #wordporn #kolkata
The worst part isn’t walking alone, I have been a lone warrior all my life, the worst part about being independent and stern is the practice of constantly reminding yourself that you are strong, even when you are at the verge of shattering. I see a person who would break at the thought of losing you, but now I see a person whom nothing can break. And this makes my heart burn, I feel sad for the emotional investment on the wrong people and not one did ever consider safeguarding my heart! The insecurity of experiencing that same pain makes you immune to emotions, and that’s the saddest part of being lonely. The ability to see the good in people who don’t even deserve a part of you, is what got you here. The ability to trust people whose hearts harboured nothing but poison is what got you here. But I guess that’s okay, that’s how we learn. That’s how we grow. . . . . . #love #writersofinstagram #poetsofinstagram #poets #unrequitedlove #poetsofindia #selfcare #poetsofig #poetsofinstagram #writerscommunity #writers #empower #heartache #onesidedlove #breakupquotes #relationshipquotes
I grew up with people who celebrated fair skin and slim bodies. I always wanted to fit in. I wanted to be more acceptable to people, to men. I spent pretty much of my entire childhood looking and behaving like other girls, in an attempt to be a part of their circle. And in the process, I failed to realise the power that originality had. When I started writing, it was one of the darkest phases of my life and it has taught me things that I chose to ignore for a very long time. 1. Your happiness is no one’s but your business. 2. It’s okay to fit in as long as you don’t lose yourself trying. 3. Grieving is a way to tell yourself and others that you are just human and it’s okay to be tired, mentally. 4. Your body is a vessel that is going to carry you through life, if you don’t respect it, it will always hurt you back in terms of low self esteem and confidence. 5. People will come and go. Period. But you are here to stay. . . . . #selflove #bodypositive #writersofinstagram #poetsofinstagram #poets #indiangirl #spreadlove #selfcare #positivethinking #inspirationalquotes #motivationalquotes #empoweringwomen #empower #inspire
No matter how good they are, if they can walk away from you, you let them walk. . . . . poetryporn #poetsofig #poetsofinstagram #poetry #poetrycommunity #selflove #unrequitedlove #quotesbytaj #wordporn #thoughts #reminder #women #love #heartbroken #writersofinstagram #writer #art #indianwriters #kolkata #lovequotes #unrequitedlove #writerscommunity #wordgasm #wordporn #quotes #breakupquotes #quotes #indianwriters
Reminder- Your self love is not theirs. . . . . poetryporn #poetsofig #poetsofinstagram #poetry #poetrycommunity #selflove #unrequitedlove #quotesbytaj #wordporn #thoughts #reminder #women #love #heartbroken #writersofinstagram #writer #art #indianwriters #kolkata #lovequotes #unrequitedlove #writerscommunity #wordgasm #wordporn #quotes #breakupquotes
Reminder. 💕💕 . . . . #poetryporn #poetsofig #poetsofinstagram #poetry #poetrycommunity #love #unrequitedlove #quotesbytaj #wordporn #thoughts #reminder #women #selflove #writersofinstagram #writer #art #indianwriters #kolkata

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  • Why do you need to fail ?
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  • Birthday 2017 ♡
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