Crisis. An inevitable part of everyone’s life, but when someone is dealing with it, we take the sole responsibility of making things even worse for them. Trying to know everything about someone is foolish and unrealistic. You have got to give people the space that you would want for yourself. And it doesn’t end there. You continue to give your expertise on how all of it should have happened instead of what actually happened. And you still don’t stop, you go to the extent of using words that could be mere phrases or figure of speech for you, but for them it can be devastatingly impactful.
Firstly, understand the kind of relationship you share with the person. If you cannot say something nice, please shut up. Sounds rude, but imagine yourself in someone else’s shoes. Hurts ?
Originally posted by Momina Muhteshan on Instagram.
If it doesn’t involve you, it shouldn’t concern you. And I tell this from a personal experience !
Secondly, if someone tells you about their feelings, their struggle with depression or anxiety and their thought processes, do not belittle them by brushing off the topic. Just because KARMA hasn’t hit you hard now, doesn’t mean it won’t !
Finally and most importantly, stop making assumptions. Be brave enough to ask to avoid the drama, confusion and pain that you cause to people. Only a fool opens his mouth and speculates without knowing the entire story.
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Nice one Taj
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I am so happy to get a compliment from such a dear friend Anasuya ❤
Thank you so much ❤
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Rightly said…and a very nice one..
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Thank you so much Sonalin for taking out time and giving it a read. It is a very sweet gesture. Thanks again ❤
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I hope people realise the extent to which they should poke their nose in other’s business.
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I have been through it. And I think everyone has been through similar situations at some point or the other. All my blogs are inspired from real lives ♡
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But as kavi says,”kuch toh log kahenge,logo ka kaam Hai kehna”
So…”chhoro Bhi in baaaton mein kahin beeet NA jaye raina”
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This is something which is so deeprooted here in the soceity we live.its so true and we all can relate it to ourselves,i know there is nothing that we can do if someone is so persistent in getting involved in our affairs except ignoring them a lot, and it ignites something within me everytime it happens ,but your blog had soothed me.
Keep writing like this.
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I am so glad you could relate to it Shadma. I have experienced the same thing and I think it’s time people should realise the importance of space no matter who the person is, maybe a celebrity or just common people like us. Poking the nose into everyone’s matter is so cruel.
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So very true!
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I’m glad that you could relate to it ❤
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❤ perfectly said
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Thank you Karen ❤
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That’s so true. Completely relatable.!!
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I am so glad you liked my blog and could relate to it. Enjoy reading !!
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I agree with you Taj. A privacy is required for everyone and we should respect it. Loved the post. 😊
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Thank you so much Sumit !
I am glad you liked it.
Keep reading ❤
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🙂
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Truly said
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Thank you Arjani <\
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So very true. Highly relevant in today’s world!
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I am so glad you liked it. Thank you 🙂
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Yup ! We must respect privacy of the people ! But as seen in real life , it is seen that every one is busy in asking what’s happening in the next door neighbour . In reel life may be it’s worse . Everyone interested in #Bollywood & #Hollywood ‘ news ‘ .
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I am glad you could relate to it. Thank you ❤
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Hope to see you read my book on short stories : Journey from Guwahati to Machhiwara . Now in 16 countries , 118 libraries India , 3 in USA .
But I respect your ‘ privacy ‘ to read the book or no !
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Sure thing. Ill try reading it sometime soon. Thank you for the recommendation.
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I’ll order it from Amazon Sir.
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Great ! Would love to see you as my Reader from a new country ? Perhaps ? 🍎🍎🍎😎
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You make very good points in this post and well written. Thank you for the follow.
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I am happy you liked it ❤
I hope you continue liking my work ! Thank you so much
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Great post!Privacy is our human right and should not be throttled with just because someone has nothing better to do with his own life.You have beautifully taken a stance with the issue!
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I am so glad that you liked it Shruti ❤
The world certainly needs people like you, who place logic before instincts !
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I agree with this awesome post! I think our society is so focused on being social that many think each individual’s business is everyone’s business. 😅
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I second you Nicolle. Rightly said.
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